Relationship cv

Imagine, if you will, that everything you have ever been through in the past, in your relationships, gets recorded on a cv.

So, you have to list that "I have dated 23 guys. I have had casual sex with 45 guys. I have had 5 sugar daddies and dated 8 married men."

Imagine if you had to list some exes as character references. How is your cv looking so far?

Let us go to the body of the cv. The part where you have to list all that you did during the relationship. Did you give your all? Did you work hard at it? Were you a team player? Or were you selfish and demanding and just wanted to be taken care of, while giving nothing? Did you grow, with each new relationship? Or did you keep repeating the same mistakes?

Did you keep on going back and dating the same TYPE of guy, even though you had a bad history with them?

Did you keep on dating bad boys who go out partying til the break of dawn? Let's face it; if you meet a guy at a party at 3am, don't expect him to stop going to parties til after 3 just because he has met you.

Surely you need to assess such things right up front. Don't just fall in love with the fun. Remember that he may (and probably WILL) put the fun ahead of you when you decide to get serious.

Here's another one; Conflict Resolution. Let us start here. How would you react, if you met a guy and then were told, before you even dated him, that he has beaten 3 of his exes to a pulp before?

And when you ask him he confirms it and justifies it, telling you what they did to deserve it.

In the same token, then; How do you expect your new man to react when he finds out that in the past you have; slashed an ex's tyres. Broken car windows and headlights. Beaten up an ex's new girlfriend. Harassed an ex. Publicly embarrassed and insulted an ex. Broke house windows and flooded a boyfriend's place with a hose.

I, for one, would (and HAVE) run for the hills when I have heard and verified such horror stories.

I just don't need that kind of drama in my life. Yes, nobody is perfect. But all I am saying is; Think about it.

Before slashing his tyres, ask yourself; Will one brief moment of satisfaction and feeling better be worth ruining your cv?

And believe me, these things DO come back to haunt you.

Is it worth it? Rather walk away with your dignity in place and your head held high.

Just say to yourself; "His loss. He has lost a good woman" Then walk away.

Wakeup Woman!